I need some help... About a girl

[Seifer]

I think what these fine gentlemen are trying to say is that by and large, women who play video games are much more logical and levelheaded. As opposed to flighty and air-headed.

They're also more like men. A lot of women I know who play videogames also seek attention from male gamers or are fat.

You have it backwards. Manly or fat women turn to video games because society shuns them, and thus they find solace in their own house, and turn to a constant form of entertainment one can do alone, video games. Don't mix these up. We are talking about socially acceptable girls who ALSO enjoy video gaming because they can, not because they have nothing better to do.

[T-Rok]

I think what these fine gentlemen are trying to say is that by and large, women who play video games are much more logical and levelheaded. As opposed to flighty and air-headed.

They're also more like men. A lot of women I know who play videogames also seek attention from male gamers or are fat.

You have it backwards. Manly or fat women turn to video games because society shuns them, and thus they find solace in their own house, and turn to a constant form of entertainment one can do alone, video games. Don't mix these up. We are talking about socially acceptable girls who ALSO enjoy video gaming because they can, not because they have nothing better to do.

*clicks like button*
Agreeing with this. My gf is neither manly nor fat. She just enjoys sitting down once in awhile and playing a round of guitar hero or something like that.

[TANK]

i dont know t rock weighing 175 for a girl is pretty chunky

[DarkTrinity]

I think what these fine gentlemen are trying to say is that by and large, women who play video games are much more logical and levelheaded. As opposed to flighty and air-headed.

They're also more like men. A lot of women I know who play videogames also seek attention from male gamers or are fat.

You have it backwards. Manly or fat women turn to video games because society shuns them, and thus they find solace in their own house, and turn to a constant form of entertainment one can do alone, video games. Don't mix these up. We are talking about socially acceptable girls who ALSO enjoy video gaming because they can, not because they have nothing better to do.

*clicks like button*
Agreeing with this. My gf is neither manly nor fat. She just enjoys sitting down once in awhile and playing a round of guitar hero or something like that.

Excuse you Yanky, I am not fat nor do I seek attention. Thanks much.
I agree with Seifer.

[T-Rok]

i dont know t rock weighing 175 for a girl is pretty chunky

I gave you the benefit of doubt and searched the topic high and low, over and over, for a post containing a weight of 175. Due to no post within pertaining to said number, I would like to give you a certificate of declaration of stupidity. But, this is not all, no not at all. My team of highly trained gophers have also informed me that your have achieved the "Punctuation is for fools!" medal. And, if you, and only you, act now you could receive today a FREE "-". Thats right, and this deal is only for you. This is a great honour indeed. Now I know you will want to be all like "Thank you, thank you! I tried so hard." But please, its just my job so lets stay on topic here.

While yes, 175 would be considered chunky to a majority of society, have you never heard of "Chubby Chasers"? One of my best friends prefers the women he dates with a little more on the side if you know what I mean. But since (and this is purely based on what I've read here) it doesn't seem like any of the female population that Krele, the other posters of this topic and I have been talking about fall into this category this is irrelevant. Now then, Krele really needs to hurry back before this topic ends up being locked from lack of on-topicness

ps. Name is T-Rok, not t rock. You may also call me Pebble if you so wish.

EDIT: DT way to post while I was typing. Made me have to click post twice, jeez. :P Also forgot to quote him so people know who I'm talking to, added now. xD

[Scotty]

i dont know t rock weighing 175 for a girl is pretty chunky

I gave you the benefit of doubt and searched the topic high and low, over and over, for a post containing a weight of 175. Due to no post within pertaining to said number, I would like to give you a certificate of declaration of stupidity. But, this is not all, no not at all. My team of highly trained gophers have also informed me that your have achieved the "Punctuation is for fools!" medal. And, if you, and only you, act now you could receive today a FREE "-". Thats right, and this deal is only for you. This is a great honour indeed. Now I know you will want to be all like "Thank you, thank you! I tried so hard." But please, its just my job so lets stay on topic here.

While yes, 175 would be considered chunky to a majority of society, have you never heard of "Chubby Chasers"? One of my best friends prefers the women he dates with a little more on the side if you know what I mean. But since (and this is purely based on what I've read here) it doesn't seem like any of the female population that Krele, the other posters of this topic and I have been talking about fall into this category this is irrelevant. Now then, Krele really needs to hurry back before this topic ends up being locked from lack of on-topicness

ps. Name is T-Rok, not t rock. You may also call me Pebble if you so wish.

EDIT: DT way to post while I was typing. Made me have to click post twice, jeez. :P Also forgot to quote him so people know who I'm talking to, added now. xD

I present to everyone a picture perfect example of a forum post that inevitably leads to derailment and the locking of threads.

EDIT: for clarification, this causes flame wars.

[Seifer]

i dont know t rock weighing 175 for a girl is pretty chunky

I gave you the benefit of doubt and searched the topic high and low, over and over, for a post containing a weight of 175. Due to no post within pertaining to said number, I would like to give you a certificate of declaration of stupidity. But, this is not all, no not at all. My team of highly trained gophers have also informed me that your have achieved the "Punctuation is for fools!" medal. And, if you, and only you, act now you could receive today a FREE "-". Thats right, and this deal is only for you. This is a great honour indeed. Now I know you will want to be all like "Thank you, thank you! I tried so hard." But please, its just my job so lets stay on topic here.

While yes, 175 would be considered chunky to a majority of society, have you never heard of "Chubby Chasers"? One of my best friends prefers the women he dates with a little more on the side if you know what I mean. But since (and this is purely based on what I've read here) it doesn't seem like any of the female population that Krele, the other posters of this topic and I have been talking about fall into this category this is irrelevant. Now then, Krele really needs to hurry back before this topic ends up being locked from lack of on-topicness

ps. Name is T-Rok, not t rock. You may also call me Pebble if you so wish.

EDIT: DT way to post while I was typing. Made me have to click post twice, jeez. :P Also forgot to quote him so people know who I'm talking to, added now. xD

Honor.

Anyway, chubby chasing is silly, but having a taste for curvy girls is fine. And don't confuse these either. A girl can have broad hips, nice thighs, nice ass, without having excess flab. That is the distinction. Liking a girl who is curvy is fine, being into grabbing rolls and pretending they are boobs is not cool.

I hate being a Moderator with opinions. :(

[TANK]

i dont know t rock weighing 175 for a girl is pretty chunky

I gave you the benefit of doubt and searched the topic high and low, over and over, for a post containing a weight of 175. Due to no post within pertaining to said number, I would like to give you a certificate of declaration of stupidity. But, this is not all, no not at all. My team of highly trained gophers have also informed me that your have achieved the "Punctuation is for fools!" medal. And, if you, and only you, act now you could receive today a FREE "-". Thats right, and this deal is only for you. This is a great honour indeed. Now I know you will want to be all like "Thank you, thank you! I tried so hard." But please, its just my job so lets stay on topic here.

While yes, 175 would be considered chunky to a majority of society, have you never heard of "Chubby Chasers"? One of my best friends prefers the women he dates with a little more on the side if you know what I mean. But since (and this is purely based on what I've read here) it doesn't seem like any of the female population that Krele, the other posters of this topic and I have been talking about fall into this category this is irrelevant. Now then, Krele really needs to hurry back before this topic ends up being locked from lack of on-topicness

ps. Name is T-Rok, not t rock. You may also call me Pebble if you so wish.

EDIT: DT way to post while I was typing. Made me have to click post twice, jeez. :P Also forgot to quote him so people know who I'm talking to, added now. xD

i do try pretty hard not to look like a grammar whore, im glad you noticed.

[TANK]

i dont know t rock weighing 175 for a girl is pretty chunky

I gave you the benefit of doubt and searched the topic high and low, over and over, for a post containing a weight of 175. Due to no post within pertaining to said number, I would like to give you a certificate of declaration of stupidity. But, this is not all, no not at all. My team of highly trained gophers have also informed me that your have achieved the "Punctuation is for fools!" medal. And, if you, and only you, act now you could receive today a FREE "-". Thats right, and this deal is only for you. This is a great honour indeed. Now I know you will want to be all like "Thank you, thank you! I tried so hard." But please, its just my job so lets stay on topic here.

While yes, 175 would be considered chunky to a majority of society, have you never heard of "Chubby Chasers"? One of my best friends prefers the women he dates with a little more on the side if you know what I mean. But since (and this is purely based on what I've read here) it doesn't seem like any of the female population that Krele, the other posters of this topic and I have been talking about fall into this category this is irrelevant. Now then, Krele really needs to hurry back before this topic ends up being locked from lack of on-topicness

ps. Name is T-Rok, not t rock. You may also call me Pebble if you so wish.

EDIT: DT way to post while I was typing. Made me have to click post twice, jeez. :P Also forgot to quote him so people know who I'm talking to, added now. xD

i do try pretty hard not to look like a grammar whore, im glad you noticed.
(i was also reffering to your girlfreind clarisse)

[Seifer]

Tank, in the future, please use the EDIT button, as opposed to double posting.

[DarkTrinity]

i dont know t rock weighing 175 for a girl is pretty chunky

I gave you the benefit of doubt and searched the topic high and low, over and over, for a post containing a weight of 175. Due to no post within pertaining to said number, I would like to give you a certificate of declaration of stupidity. But, this is not all, no not at all. My team of highly trained gophers have also informed me that your have achieved the "Punctuation is for fools!" medal. And, if you, and only you, act now you could receive today a FREE "-". Thats right, and this deal is only for you. This is a great honour indeed. Now I know you will want to be all like "Thank you, thank you! I tried so hard." But please, its just my job so lets stay on topic here.

While yes, 175 would be considered chunky to a majority of society, have you never heard of "Chubby Chasers"? One of my best friends prefers the women he dates with a little more on the side if you know what I mean. But since (and this is purely based on what I've read here) it doesn't seem like any of the female population that Krele, the other posters of this topic and I have been talking about fall into this category this is irrelevant. Now then, Krele really needs to hurry back before this topic ends up being locked from lack of on-topicness

ps. Name is T-Rok, not t rock. You may also call me Pebble if you so wish.

EDIT: DT way to post while I was typing. Made me have to click post twice, jeez. :P Also forgot to quote him so people know who I'm talking to, added now. xD

i do try pretty hard not to look intelligible, im glad you noticed.

fixed.

So Krele, you should update us on this story. You gonna go for girl number 2 now? or neither?

[krele]

First thing, let me clarify something. I'm soon to be 18 years old, in 2+ months to be exact.
Also!
@Yanky on page3:
I did show her I'm really interested... She knew it for a fact.

Anyways, an update. We talked today, because I wanted to know the truth. This whole thing is really complicated like hell, so I needed to make sure I did nothing wrong. I asked her questions about what happened and she was answering.

Q: Why showing me any signs of interest in first place while you can't handle the distance in the first place?
A: You mistook it for interest... I wanted you to be my friend.

Q: Then why telling me it's 'cause of the distance? You could've just said the real deal.
A: I didn't know you long enough, and I didn't know how you would've reacted.

Q: So then, you tell every friend of your's "You're really special to me"?
A: I said it because you're different from my other friends.

Q: You know me for 2 weeks, you have nothing to base it of if you said it for friendship purposes.
A: That was enough.

Q: But it wasn't enough for you to simply say the real deal about you "not liking" me? You're contradicting yourself.
A: ...

Q: Why sending me that xmas song? You do that to everyone?
A: I just wanted you to see how I liked xmas =)

Q: And you chose that song, and you chose me to express yourself? For all I know, you could've sent "jingle bells", not "santa can you hear me"... The lyrics were just too strong for me to throw away.
A: So what? -.-

Q: Why then, did you ask me questions regarding my love life? (do you have a girl you like currently, what's your type of a girl, your longest relationship, etc)
A: I just asked it, what's the big deal?

Q: So you're saying you were only interested in my love life, not my hobbies or anything else? And yet you didn't like me?
A: ...

Q: About the drawing, why were you so interested in who I drew that night? To the point of being obsessed with it?
A: I thought it might be me.

Q: Why would you think so?
A: And why is that drawing so important?
AA: Because you put it as your friggin' avatar! It means it meant something to you.

Q: Why did you wait for me to start a conversation?
A: Because I didn't want to be boring.
Q: And why is that? If you wanted only friendship, being boring wouldn't matter all that much to you.
A: How do you know?

Q: And you're claiming all these things I've mentioned are mere coincidence?
A: I don't have any more will to answer your stupid questions.
_________________

That's it for the questioning part... She claims she didn't like me in the first place, and how she only wanted friendship... Yet, she did many things that are SCREAMING that she liked/likes me.

My theory is:

She DID hook up with Mario that night (did I mention it was her birthday?). That day she was especially silent, talked little, etc... Later on, when she wasn't so sure that guy wants anything from her, she started the conversation and told me I was special to her... This Saturday everything went downhill, and most likely two of them hooked up again. On Sunday, we were on webcam, fooling around etc... 'Till like 3 AM. I went to sleep, and when I woke up for school I checked her facebook profile to put a heart or two. Unfortunately, I've seen the relationship change, and I couldn't believe it...

So, she kept me on the hook in case this guy didn't want anything else with her. She's just a girl that couldn't imagine being alone on christmas, and wanted to be with someone she likes... Each Saturday when they met, she was weird and silent, but the day after, when she noticed that guy didn't ask her for a relationship, she would turn to me. And know she's claiming she only wanted friendship, in order to protect herself, since what she did was really bitchy.

Now tell me, is it true that she never liked me, even though everything is suggesting she did? Did I do something wrong? Is there anything else I should ask her? Does my theory make sense to you, or do you thought of the same thing?

Thanks in advance, and no need to mention it, I've turned to second girl =)

[Scotty]

I won't predict this girl's mindset, because honestly man, you're wasting your time even dragging this on.  I'm not saying this to stir the pot, but seriously, there is a lack of maturity right here (on her part, you're actually shocking me), and all your effort is being misdirected.  Let it go, grab a Pepsi, and file it under the learning experiences drawer.  She is confused beyond belief, and I will tell you that any effort you put towards her is going to go no where, because she is so lost in Candy Land.  It's gonna take a real big hook and worm to pull her head out of her ass to mature and realize that her mindset when it comes to relationships is so far in left field, and you shouldn't be the one losing sleep over her short-comings trying to redirect her.  Let it go, and live life stress-free.

Go for the new #1!!

And as every teenager hates being told, despite its truth: "It builds character".  You'll understand it in due time.

[DarkTrinity]

Shockingly, I agree with Scotty. You're kinda dragging it on with this girl and it sounds like she doesn't know what she wants, especially if she's only known you for two weeks and says you're "special" to her. She did lead you on, and I agree it sounds like she really did like you. But right now, all your questions are probably just pissing her off and making her feel guilty. You'll get nothing else from her.

Now do we get stories about the second girl?? ;P

[Scotty]

You're kinda dragging it on with this girl and it sounds like she doesn't know what she wants, especially if she's only known you for two weeks and says you're "special" to her. She did lead you on, and I agree it sounds like she really did like you. But right now, all your questions are probably just pissing her off and making her feel guilty. You'll get nothing else from her.

Don't even think that far into it Krele.  She's not worth your time.  At this point, it's just an infatuation that you feel for her, nothing more.  Infatuations wear off.  It's several years worth of a solid relationship that get cut short that will wear you down (believe me, I can vouch for that claim).  At this point, let it go, don't think about it, just drop it like a Saturday night cheap corner block hooker with a bad case of gonosyphiherpalitis.  Move on with your life, there's no sense in pursuing this any further.  Life is short, make the most of it.  Live and learn from mistakes made in the past, even if they aren't your mistakes.